Letting go is a choice.
Grieving is a process.
You can decide to walk away from someone’s inconsistency, but that doesn’t mean your heart catches up right away. You can “let them” and still feel the weight of what you’ve lost.
The space they once filled doesn’t disappear overnight. The attachment doesn’t vanish just because you see the truth.
Be patient with yourself. Just because you know what’s right for you doesn’t mean you won’t feel the loss. Healing takes time